What parenthood and gender cost a lawyer

A survey of 1,000+ Seattle-area lawyers that separates the career cost of being a mother from the cost of being a woman.

My role
Survey programming, fielding, analysis & reporting
Client
Attorney mothers' association, via a legal-industry research consultancy
Sample
1,020 lawyers · current & former private practice
Tools
Qualtrics · R
Key strengths

Research process highlights

The question

Why do mothers leave private practice, and what would keep them?

A regional association of attorney mothers wanted evidence for firm leaders: which obstacles come from parenting, which come from gender, where do the two compound, and which policies would help?

What I owned

  • Questionnaire design
  • Qualtrics programming and fielding
  • Data cleaning
  • Plan for statistical analysis
  • Analysis and reporting
Approach

Research design

Questionnaire logic

Wording, scales and skip logic built to support planned tests.

Fielding

Qualtrics, pretested, three weeks in the field. ~11,000 lawyers by email, plus a QR code in bar publications.

Analysis

A custom R pipeline modeled every question.

The core design: gender × parenthood. Comparing all four groups separates being a woman from raising children, while revealing whenever having children affects women and men differently.

Logistic or linear models by question type, with age controlled where it could confound.

Finding 1

Parental status and gender interact to shape lawyers' experiences

Some strains hit all parents. Others hit primarily women, with or without children. But some penalized women with children more than men.

Parents of both genders found family obligations disrupted their work, but the penalty was stronger for mothers than for fathers. Women felt perceived as less competent than men, regardless of parental status.
Finding 2

At home, mothers are still the default parent

Mothers were far more likely to report that they handle childcare alone; fathers more often described responsibilities as shared.

"I am primarily responsible for…"
Parents currently in private practice who live with dependent children
Mothers Fathers
Finding 3

Children push mothers' and fathers' careers in opposite directions

Compared with peers without children, fathers work more and want part-time less; mothers show the opposite inclination.

How having children changes each outcome, for women and for men
Share of lawyers currently in private practice, without vs. with dependent children
Women Men
Billable hours shown as the share working 31+ hours a week.
Finding 4 · A follow-up analysis

What keeps mothers at a firm depends on the firm's size

Small firms keep mothers with time, large firms with career.

Where each reason to stay is stronger, among mothers
Share naming each a reason to stay: large firms (50+ lawyers) minus small firms
Rigor

Controlling for confounds

What the raw tables showed
Parents looked far more likely to hold senior positions.
What the model showed
Age accounted for the gap.

Parents were older. With age controlled, the effect disappeared.

From findings to action

Where firm policy and mothers' priorities diverge

The desire for paid leave and flexible hours are shared across genders, but changes to how firms count hours and give credit matter to far more to mothers than fathers.

Retention strategies differ by gender: the mother–father gap
Share of parents rating each strategy "very important"
Hover for details. Dividers are visual guides, not statistical cutoffs.
What the survey found

Women face a gender penalty, with or without children

What the report recommends

Address implicit bias; track advancement with metrics

What the survey found

Mothers prioritize billable-hour and credit reforms

What the report recommends

Rework compensation and hours; make flexibility penalty-free

What the survey found

Firm size changes what keeps mothers

What the report recommends

Tailor retention strategy to the firm